The Unspoken

Kepercayaan diri sering dikaitkan dengan fisik, status sosial, dan persepsi orang lain terhadap kita. Menurut saya ini adalah hal yang sebenarnya bisa kita hadapi dengan cara memerdekakan pikiran dan hati kita dari anggapan-anggapan tidak penting. Anggapan bahwa fisik rupawan akan lebih disukai orang-orang, anggapan bahwa status sosial yang tinggi akan lebih dihormati, anggapan bahwa otak yang cerdas akan lebih disenangi, dan anggapan-anggapan lain yang lahir dari kedangkalan kita dalam berpikir dan menghargai sesuatu. Kita terlalu memikirkan penilaian orang terhadap kita, padahal kita yang lebih tau diri kita, nilai, kapasitas dan kemampuan kita. Penilaian orang tidak pernah benar-benar mewakili kita yang sebenarnya. Penilaian buruk orang terhadap kita, jika benar, maka anggap saja itu sebagai sebuah kritik agar kita bisa introspeksi, dan jika salah, anggap saja dia tidak benar-benar mengenal kita. Sebenarnya ada orang-orang yang sudah selesai dengan perkara-perkara di atas, tapi ma...

I'm not a beauty blogger, and this blog is not a beauty blog, obviously. But as a woman, I really want to share my opinion about beauty. As you know, beauty is something that woman really put much effort to get. The definition of beauty is not always the same to every person. It depends on what values ones hold. But in general, our people define beauty as 'good looking'. Moreover, media has succesfully educate us that beauty is having a white skin, a small face, a sharp chin, thick eyebrows, and this and that. What funny is that definition always change time to time. Therefore you need to set your own standard of beauty. I'm 24 now and I don't like make up. I love my bare face. I only use daily defense cream for the sake of sun protection, and little bit lip balm because I have a very very dry lip. I use lipstick once in a while but trust me, I look weird using it. But just for your information, I like to take care of my skin. My mother once said, ' all yo...

It never ceases to amaze me to see what technology can do nowadays. Flash back to my childhood, when my father worked abroad, in somewhere far away, the only thing that always made us keep in touch was a telephone in a place named wartel . Every two weeks my mother, my brother and I went to wartel to have a talk with my father. Unluckily, we couldn’t talk too long because it was an international call which cost very expensive. My mother said that before I was born, the communication between my father and her was even worse, by mail. Was it hard? Well, compare to the days we live now, it could be very hard. Okay, lets talk about the situation now. I think we don't need any explanation about communication and information   technology these days. We live in smartphone era where internet is an essential part of life. There are so many messenger application to communicate easily with everyone around the world. There is no longer separation between each country and even continent....